Woman Overstepping, Misplacing And Needing Boundaries.
Dear Reader,
Let’s call this behavior what it really is — low class and low self-worth. Because any woman who allows herself to linger as an option instead of standing firm as a choice is already telling the world everything, she thinks she deserves.
A woman with confidence doesn’t chase closed doors. She doesn’t call for attention. She doesn’t hover hoping to stay relevant. She moves with dignity — not desperation.
But some women can’t accept when their time is up. Not because they truly want him, but because they can’t handle the reality of someone else being chosen. So, they linger, they insert themselves, they “check in,” pop up for no real reason. It’s not love — it’s insecurity wearing perfume and excuses.
And here’s the wildest part… if another woman did to her what she does to someone else? She’d be throwing fits, demanding boundaries, calling it disrespect. But when she’s the one crossing the line? Suddenly it’s “innocent” and “no big deal.”
If you wouldn’t tolerate someone else disrespecting your space, stop disrespecting someone else’s. And if the door is closed, step away from it with some self-respect. Holding on doesn’t make you loyal — it makes you unavailable for your own healing.
Somebody had to say it.
xoxo, Indie💋
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