The Silent Win: How to Use Doubt as Fuel Dear Reader, I have some big exciting news: I am in the strategic planning phase! I’m visiting the gym tomorrow to finalize my membership and I’m genuinely excited about it. I’m also ready to tackle the logistics of food prepping so I can properly fuel this… Continue reading Proof is My Priority
Category: Marriage, Men, and Me
Where I unpack the real stories behind love, marriage, and self-growth. Honest reflections, lessons learned, and reminders that we can all grow through what we go through —one moment at a time.
The Love That Built Me
December 3rd — The Day My Heart Learned It’s First Great Love Dear Reader, Some stories shape your life. Some stories change your life. And some stories save your life. This one is all three — because it begins with my son, my heart, my Shonny. From the moment he arrived on a Monday at… Continue reading The Love That Built Me
A Love I Didn’t Plan
That night wasn’t about love — it was about loss. I was there with my family, gathered to celebrate my brother’s life and find a little comfort in shared memories. My heart was heavy, still carrying both grief and quiet acceptance that marriage, for me, was over. I wasn’t expecting anything beyond that moment —… Continue reading A Love I Didn’t Plan
The Tougher Version of Me
Part 2 of my journey through loss, boundaries, and peace—discovering the tougher version of myself through the hardest moments of love and life
The Tougher Version of Me
I went through years where my focus was on nurturing others–my husbands and children–until I completely lost myself. I was so busy being a wife and mother that I became invisible. The person I once was faded into a blur of compromises, small acts of forgiveness, and endless flexibility. I use to believe that being… Continue reading The Tougher Version of Me
The Man I Grew to Love
There comes a moment when one more burden becomes to much to bear. His betrayal was the breaking point—but also my breakthrough. What ended in pain began again in power, because the truth finally gave me permission to choose myself.
The Man I Grew To Love
The truth has a way of showing up when you’re finally ready to see it. What I thought was love revealed itself as control, and what I mistook for strength was really a mask. Naming it—narcissism—wasn’t just clarity; it was the beginning of freedom.
The Man I Grew to Love
Love can bloom even in the cracks of a broken heart—but not all soil can sustain it. What started as healing turned into warning signs I chose to overlook. In the middle of love, faith, and red flags, I was learning that even second chances come with lessons.
The Man I Grew to Love
After losing my child, I was searching for air in a world that no longer made sense. What I found wasn’t healing—it was a distraction that looked like love.
When the World Fell Apart: Grief, Bars, and New Beginnings
After my world fell apart, I tried to fill the silence of grief with distraction —a relationship that began as comfort but became a lesson in loss and resilience. This was the moment I began to rebuild, one truth at a time.
Marriage, Men, and Me 