Dedication: To the Men Who Paved the Way… I want to open this with a special shout-out to all the special men in my life — those who are here standing strong and the ones who have passed away. This one is for you. Your presence has shaped me, your strength has inspired me, and… Continue reading Table for Two
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Proof is My Priority
The Silent Win: How to Use Doubt as Fuel Dear Reader, I have some big exciting news: I am in the strategic planning phase! I’m visiting the gym tomorrow to finalize my membership and I’m genuinely excited about it. I’m also ready to tackle the logistics of food prepping so I can properly fuel this… Continue reading Proof is My Priority
The Three R’s
Rest • Reset • Reclaim The Art of Becoming Your Own Safe Space By Indie — Dear Indie Exclusive Issue One of the biggest parts of becoming my own safe space was finally carving out a physical space that felt like mine. Not shared. Not borrowed. Not halfway put together. I took our spare room… Continue reading The Three R’s
A Love I Didn’t Plan
That night wasn’t about love — it was about loss. I was there with my family, gathered to celebrate my brother’s life and find a little comfort in shared memories. My heart was heavy, still carrying both grief and quiet acceptance that marriage, for me, was over. I wasn’t expecting anything beyond that moment —… Continue reading A Love I Didn’t Plan
The Tougher Version of Me
I went through years where my focus was on nurturing others–my husbands and children–until I completely lost myself. I was so busy being a wife and mother that I became invisible. The person I once was faded into a blur of compromises, small acts of forgiveness, and endless flexibility. I use to believe that being… Continue reading The Tougher Version of Me
The Man I Grew to Love
There comes a moment when one more burden becomes to much to bear. His betrayal was the breaking point—but also my breakthrough. What ended in pain began again in power, because the truth finally gave me permission to choose myself.
The Man I Grew To Love
The truth has a way of showing up when you’re finally ready to see it. What I thought was love revealed itself as control, and what I mistook for strength was really a mask. Naming it—narcissism—wasn’t just clarity; it was the beginning of freedom.
Before boundaries, Before Self-Love: My awakening at 50.
What are boundaries? It’s a question I could have never answered honestly before I turned 50. We hear the word but do we truly understand what they mean? For me, it took half a century and some incredibly tough lessons- to grasp their profound importance. Life before 50, was a testament to what happens when… Continue reading Before boundaries, Before Self-Love: My awakening at 50.
Marriage, Men, and Me 