There comes a moment when one more burden becomes to much to bear. His betrayal was the breaking point—but also my breakthrough. What ended in pain began again in power, because the truth finally gave me permission to choose myself.
Author: Marriage, Men, and Me
The Man I Grew To Love
The truth has a way of showing up when you’re finally ready to see it. What I thought was love revealed itself as control, and what I mistook for strength was really a mask. Naming it—narcissism—wasn’t just clarity; it was the beginning of freedom.
The Man I Grew to Love
Love can bloom even in the cracks of a broken heart—but not all soil can sustain it. What started as healing turned into warning signs I chose to overlook. In the middle of love, faith, and red flags, I was learning that even second chances come with lessons.
The Man I Grew to Love
After losing my child, I was searching for air in a world that no longer made sense. What I found wasn’t healing—it was a distraction that looked like love.
When the World Fell Apart: Grief, Bars, and New Beginnings
After my world fell apart, I tried to fill the silence of grief with distraction —a relationship that began as comfort but became a lesson in loss and resilience. This was the moment I began to rebuild, one truth at a time.
My Writing Sanctuary
Writing, like water, is my sanctuary—a place where silence and emotion meet. Through each word, I find flow, peace, and clarity that remind me healing isn’t loud…it’s found in stillness.
When Words Become Weapons
Words can cut deeper than fists —their wounds unseen, yet felt long after the echoes fade. This is my story of recognizing verbal abuse, reclaiming my voice, and learning that silence is not strength —speaking truth is.
The Unheard Virtue: Why My Silence Isn’t a Surrender
“Let your words always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you will know how you should answer each person.” Colossians 4:6 Colossians 4:6 isn’t just a suggestion; it’s a profound principle that guides my speech, especially when emotions flare. To me, ‘seasoned with salt’ carries so much meaning. Just like salt enhances the taste… Continue reading The Unheard Virtue: Why My Silence Isn’t a Surrender
Before boundaries, Before Self-Love: My awakening at 50.
What are boundaries? It’s a question I could have never answered honestly before I turned 50. We hear the word but do we truly understand what they mean? For me, it took half a century and some incredibly tough lessons- to grasp their profound importance. Life before 50, was a testament to what happens when… Continue reading Before boundaries, Before Self-Love: My awakening at 50.
Welcome to My Journey: The Story Behind Marriage, Men, and Me
Welcome, friends! I’m so happy you found your way to Marriage, Men, and Me- Grow Through What You Go Through! This is where I’ll be sharing my personal journey of self-discovery through life’s most complex relationships. If you have ever felt the weight of past relationships and wondered what true growth looks like after a… Continue reading Welcome to My Journey: The Story Behind Marriage, Men, and Me
Marriage, Men, and Me 